🥊 Victim= a person harmed, injured, or killed as a result of a crime, accident, or other event or action.
🥊Some people live their lives as a person who has been harmed and offended by every happening that they come across.
🥊Going through traumatic events in life is in fact apart of life.
🥊You can actually be a victim from things that were not your fault no doubt.
🥊But the point here is not to live life as a victim. Do not view the world through the eyes of a victim. Or else you will always feel like someone did you wrong.
🥊The professional victim is a person who always feels that when things do not go their way, that it’s not their fault. It’s always someone or something else who’s to blame.
🥊No accountability….woe is me woe is me. And even worse, why me?? 😭
🥊The fact is that victims would rather blame others for why they are not tolerable or why their life is not the way that they want it to be.
🥊In the end, we must perfect the skill of accountability. And it is important to know the difference between when we are harmed (i.e. an actual victim) or not.
🥊And even when we fall into unfortunate circumstances, learn how to grieve those situations, heal from them, and move forward in life In shaa Allaah.
🥊To wallow in pity for yourself and then expect others to do so long term as well is foolish. This is the professional victim.
❤️May Allaah aid us all Aameen 🤲🏼
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